Something blue. Deep Sapphire blue, that is…
If diamonds aren’t for you, try this one on for size. A 5.36ct deep blue sapphire, flanked by 2 half-carat half-moon shaped diamonds for a total diamond weight of 1.00ct.
Alchemy
1022 NW Lovejoy
503.227.8373
The one item that sends brides racing through the doors of Oblation Papers & Press the day before the big event is the guestbook. Ah yes, yet another detail to remember but we think it’s a rather important one. Luckily, Oblation offers great options for planners and procrastinators alike.
Oblation has created a line of hand-bound guestbooks covered with luxurious bookcloth filled with either their handmade cotton paper or 100% recycled paper pages. If you don’t find exactly what you envision, set up an appointment with Oblation’s resident bookbinders, Molly or Michelle. These creative gals can create a custom book from the bookcloth, paper and ribbon that you select in the store.
Oblation Papers & Press
516 northwest 12th avenue
503.223.1093
Perfectly Pearl will premiere on the bridal events calendar of Weddings Portland Style this Sunday at noon. For those brides who are unfamiliar, this is the only television show in metropolitan Portland that caters exclusively to brides. Learn the latest trends and hottest wedding venues in our area. Tune in on Sunday at noon on Portland’s CW.
The “Asscher cut diamond” was developed in 1902 by the Asscher Brothers of Holland. It is a stepped square cut, often called the “square emerald cut” and like an emerald cut, the Asscher has cropped corners.
This lovely ring is an Asscher cut diamond engagement ring from the Ritani “Endless Love” Collection at Judith Arnell Jewelers.
Judith Arnell
Your diamond in the Pearl District.
320 NW 10th Ave
503.227.3437
If you are planning a stylish and sustainable wedding, you’ll love the natural beauty products available at FEZ Studio.
Mineral makeup is made of mineral pigments derived from rock, micro-pulverized and jet milled for an incredibly smooth consistency. It is all natural, long lasting and provides a natural barrier to UVA and UVB radiation without irritation, burning or stinging. Because mineral makeup is gentle, it is the perfect solution for sensitive skin, but it’s great for skin of any type or age.
Hamadi products are made with 100% organic essential oils and plant extracts. There are no artificial ingredients, perfumes or colors. It is as biodegradable as it is luxurious—100%!
Glowing and radiant skin. Shiny and luxurious hair. What else could a bride want? Make an appointment at FEZ Studio for your personalized bridal consultation with celebrated international makeup artist, “Fez” Vartan.
FEZ Studio
1125 NW 9th Avenue
503.227.2226
Vera Wang. Modern, elegant and timeless. Preview new designs and styles at the Vera Wang trunk show at Divine Designs Bridal Boutique on November 29-December 1. Appointment required.
Divine Designs Bridal Boutique
512 NW 17th Avenue, Suite B
503.827.0667
“Unite”
Letterpress invitation by Oblation Papers & Press. Hand-made paper (100% recycled), soy-based inks, deckle edge and original illustration.
Oblation Papers & Press
516 northwest 12th avenue
503.223.1093
Be sure to visit our “About” and “Participants” pages for updates. We’ve just added information about the Pearl District, weddings in the neighborhood, the Perfectly Pearl Modern Bridal Event and two new participants.
This engaging look is for the non-traditional bride who wants to reflect her individual sense of style with her most important piece of jewelry. One of the chicest ways to wear an engagement ring is to forgo the solitaire altogether and opt for an eternity band with stones that travel around the circumference, symbolizing a love without beginning or end.
Judith Arnell
Your diamond in the Pearl District.
320 NW 10th Ave
503.227.3437
If it’s true that opposites attract, it should come as no surprise that spouses often have vastly different attitudes and habits around money and investing. Life experiences shape who we are, including how we manage our finances. When it’s time for a husband and wife to sit down with one another to plan how much to save and how much to spend, individual differences can create roadblocks.
Wealth disparities and family of origin
When one partner comes from a family of modest means and the other partner has a trust fund, there’s bound to be differences in how each handles money. The former may be a compulsive saver, while the latter may be in the habit of spending freely, especially if there’s little threat of running out of money. One spouse may be jealous if the other has more money in the bank or promised in a will. If one partner works while the other spends, resentment may be formed. Even birth order can influence how a person views money; older siblings often feel more responsibility, and therefore may be more conservative spenders. Younger siblings tend to be more free spirited when it comes to spending. Couples that find themselves in conflict over finances need to sort out the influence of their upbringing and how it affects their attitudes and actions about money.
Be aware and move in sync
While there’s not much we can do to erase early memories of a tightwad mother or a profligate father, individuals can make new choices for their lives. It’s not easy to come to terms with our “money personalities,” but it’s necessary when two people want to work toward common financial goals. Couples need to acknowledge their differences and be willing to compromise in order to make progress in any important area, finances included.
Communication is key
Many of us refuse to show our true feelings about money, but talking is the best way to move ahead. Financial introverts should open up to their significant other so the two can create a workable financial plan. When spouses try to manage financial planning without the other’s input they will run into trouble. At a minimum, both parties need to share the same goals, even if one is more involved in making financial arrangements, and that means open communication regarding spending, saving and investing.
Work together with help from a financial professional
A financial advisor may help couples find financial compromise if they are willing to work toward common goals. Couples should meet with their advisor at least annually, and meetings can take place together or separately, as long as both parties are involved. An advisor may help educate a less financially savvy spouse about the rewards of careful spending and the benefits of saving for the future. Life partners can overcome their differences and get on track with a sound financial plan if they are willing to talk, adjust their habits and check-in on their progress. The rewards of financial agreement will extend beyond their bank balances and may help sustain a closer, happier relationship.
By Adina Flynn, JD
Financial Advisor
Ameriprise Financial, Inc
1400 NW Irving Street, suite 108
503.808.9100 x100
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This column is provided for informational purposes only. The information is intended to be generic in nature and should not be applied or relied upon in any particular situation without the advice of your tax, legal and/or your financial advisor. Neither Ameriprise Financial nor its advisors or representatives provide tax or legal advice. The views expressed may not be suitable for every situation. Consult with qualified tax and legal advisors concerning your own situation.
